What are dilators used for?
Sex should offer moments of pleasure, bliss, and absolute relaxation. But after a longer pause, menopause, or if you’re just trying something new, being penetrated by your partner can sometimes be unpleasant, painful, or even impossible.
Anal or vaginal dilators provide a gradual, gentle, and painless way to stretch a body opening, allowing for penetration by your partner or sex toys. They thus offer a discreet and effective way to fully enjoy intimate moments in absolute comfort!
Why buy a dilator?
What benefits can a vaginal or anal dilator (sometimes also called a rectal dilator) offer you?
- Regular use of a dilator can help increase comfort during intimate moments. You can then immerse yourself in carefree pleasure.
- Dilators can be used to discover new sexual experiences and positions that would otherwise be uncomfortable.
- With proper preparation, you can enjoy intimate moments with a feeling of certainty and self-confidence.
- Aside from preparation for sex, dilators can also be used as sex toys that offer unconventional stimulation and let you experience an entirely new dimension of pleasure.
- The shape of the dilator and special functions like vibration can make your experience even more intense.
Dilator set
A set of dilators of several sizes allows for gradual and gentle dilation. You start with the smallest dilator and gradually switch to larger ones at your own pace.
- A small dilator is for beginners.
- As soon as you don’t feel pressure after inserting the small dilator, switch to a medium dilator.
- A large dilator is suitable for more advanced users.
How should you use a dilator to prepare for sex?
- Choose the right size. If you are using a dilator for a given part of the body for the first time, start with the smallest size.
- Apply sufficient lubricant to the dilator and to the intimate area for maximum comfort. A water-based lubricant that washes off easily is ideal.
- Make yourself comfortable on your bed, couch, or maybe in the tub. Breath deeply and try to relax all the muscles in your body as much as possible.
- Start inserting the dilator. A slight feeling of pressure and muscle tension are absolutely normal. If you feel pain or intense discomfort, you need to slow down or use a smaller size.
- As soon as the dilator is inserted, you can also supports its effect using pelvic floor exercises. After 10–30 minutes stop and remove the dilator slowly.
During training, you should use the dilator 2–3 times a week. Before and after each use, wash the dilator thoroughly and store it according to the manufacturer’s instructions.
Using a dilator in role-play and BDSM
A dilator can play a key role not only in preparing for sex, but also to add an exciting dimension to roleplay and BDSM activities.
Penis dilator
A penis dilator offers a truly unique form of stimulation – gentle dilation of the urethra. This BDSM play is usually for advanced users.
Anal dilator
Anal dilators are an excellent tool for those who want to explore deeper levels of anal stimulation and discover new forms of pleasure.
Try out a dilator and step up to moments full of bliss! Intimate moments with your partner will also be more pleasant with erotic toys for couples or flavoured lubrication gels with flavours of juicy fruit or sweet vanilla. Just pick from Notino’s on-line sex shop!